There is this crazy thing that men do,

I absolutely loathe it.

I guess when you are in your twenties, like early twenties, its not as crazy to do as when you are in your thirties.

I scratch that, it is absolutely not acceptable at all.

So when i scrolled across this tweet on Twitter, I\ had to have the writer make her words “scream” louder, especially for the men  in the back.

Maybe its because i am a straightforward person

But there is this thing that some men do, that I don’t like.

He will approach a lady with the “intentions” of having a relationship or better still marriage.

Then he hits and runs.

So he will spend days, weeks and months on the phone, buy roses and expensive gifts, dates, travel, just create a facade.

After “securing the bag” or rather “getting the cookies”, his behavior changes and before long he is gone. WHY??

I think it also stems from the fact that women like being told only what they want to hear, some women cannot or would not sign up for the “f buddy contract”, it wont even be considered, so to be put more mildly and respectfully, the man would approach the woman and act a movie for a while and then disappear.

“If you do this, may you never have another orgasm in your life” – sherry ShayD

Its a tough situation because most of us females will feel disrespected but at least you know you are not being led on.

I have been approached by this method twice, even though  i found it a little crazy, i gave the guy thumbs up for saying these exact words

“I just want you for one night, i can pay for an executive suite, treat you real good but all i want to do is have sex with you”

At the time i was still a virgin and did not even consider it, looking back now, I admired his courage for being direct from the beginning, it gave me the choice to say “yes” or “no”, not being led like a sacrificial lamb to the altar.

The second guy put it like this “I want to blow your back out”. I read the text message and laughed, I simply replied. “While you are thinking of blowing my back out, i would need my legs to walk around at work tomorrow.” I may have considered it, but blowing my back out made me think i would go to walk with either a limp or bowlegged.

What are your thoughts?